We love kids by EXPECTING them to
Eat All Good Foods
In our 21st century world,
more people are killed by obesity than by malnutrition.
Our snacky eating habits, with food always at hand, are killing us with the same voracity as the famines of old. As adults, we must take very seriously what habits our expectations around food are developing in the children we serve.
Enforceable Expectation:
Children are welcome to have snacks and/or treats . . .
once they have eaten an entire meal.
If a child doesn't eat their meals or the nutritious portion of a school snack, then they forfeit their right to any additional snacks and wait to eat until the next meal.
All of us have our own ideas about what defines a healthy meal, but it is clear the habits and norms of the modern world are not serving us very well.
By increasing our expectations around kids' capacity to eat diverse, nutritious foods, we set them up for a life with a vital body while connecting with others over delicious meals, rather than stuffing themselves with junk on the run.
Additional Benefits:
Kids who eat all good foods will also . . .
1. Be more grateful.
2. Be better positioned to go to new people's homes, other countries, etc.
3. Not crave snacks and sweets.
4. Be mindful of what passes the gateway of their mouths.
5. Grow in knowledge of the source of their food, beyond the supermarket.
6. Enjoy treats as a special, delightful privilege which tops a well-balanced diet.
Ideas for Implementation:
Help kids eat all good foods by . . .
1. Establish fixed eating times, as opposed to snacks whenever they/you feel like it.
2. Try new and various ethnic foods regularly, adults too.
3. Refuse the lie of "Kid's food" and expect kids to eat what adults eat, and what you want them to eat when they become an adult.
4. Reduce dependence on condiments and/or masking foods.
5. Make dessert and snacks an earned privilege, rather than an expected norm.
6. Limit processed foods.
7. Cook with kids, and not just cookies.
8. Eat healthier food yourself, and overcome your own pickiness by intentionally serving (and eating) things you don't like.
9. Learning about nutrition yourself. Nourishing Traditions is a great book to start with.
10. Visit farmer's markets and/or grow your own food.
What are your expectations around food communicating to children?
Pick one of the above ideas to experiment with this week
and do your kids the favor of expecting more from their eating habits.
For more on raising your expectations for children,
visit here and go to the "High Expectations" topic tab