Top Ten “Up, Not Out” Media Resources

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1)Rise of the Guardians – Film by Dreamworks and William Joyce This movie is where the entire “Up, Not Out” journey began for Andrew. Join the Guardians of Childhood in their quest to protect and nurture hope, wonder, dreams, and … Read More

A New Key for Adults to Unlock Play with Kids: “Convergence”

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I think for all adults there are moments where playing with kids just doesn’t sound fun. Whether it’s because of the activity the kids are doing, the energy level of the adult, or the adult’s desire to be doing something … Read More

The Greatest Gift We Can Give Our Children this Christmas: Heart Treasure

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December is nearly upon us, and Christmas will come in the jingle of a bell. It is a time of memory-making and memory-recalling. In my household, it is a time to watch home videos. We will replay the wonderful glimpses … Read More

Parenting Children Individually: Potential Dangers of Blanket-Strategies

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The decision has been made. It is time for the Wiens family to return to church. The reasons for the decision are myriad, but near the top of the list is the desire to connect with peers for the kids, … Read More

Messy Learning: Celebrating Growth Amidst the Mess

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Levi, fifteen months, is a sippy-cup guy. Every meal, a sippy cup. Waiting on the counter where he can reach it when thirsty, a sippy cup. At least that is the way things were. This changed when I filled his … Read More

A Brave Boy Becoming: Avoiding Putting Pressure on Kids by Focusing on Self-Growth

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Our family just got back from an almost month-long sojourn to the Coast of Oregon and back through Montana. Along the way there was much wild country, and many opportunities for adventure. From the ocean, to river rapids, to rock … Read More

Encouraging Idleness: Unlocking Imagination and a Depth of Learning

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Most of us have heard it said, “Idleness is the devil’s workshop.” I believe idleness creates a workshop. It can just as easily be God’s as the devil’s.   Today I took my kids to the MN Children’s Museum. It … Read More

Look at Me! Celebrating Overcoming Risky Obstacles and Growth

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I am convinced no one wants to go unnoticed. We don’t want to be anonymous, unknown, unappreciated. We desire desperately to be recognized; to be seen. I don’t trust or believe anyone who says something different. I am not saying … Read More

I make all things NEW: a Search for New Every Day

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The inflatable tail of my squirrel costume extends above my head and forces me to sit up straight as I drive the school bus onto the playground.  Behind me sits my good friend Brandon, dressed as Luigi from the Mario … Read More

Universal Job Description: Grow Up and Contribute

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I have spent over a thousand consecutive days thinking about, writing about, teaching about, and wrestling in my own heart with the concept I call “Up, Not Out.” I have seen the difficulty of transferring many of my ideas to … Read More

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